I have been with my husband for 20 years. (He was actually my high school/college sweetheart; we broke up; had no contact for 22 years; married others and had families; and then found each other again.) We will be married 15 years this year. His daughter is 40 and he has 30 year old twin sons. All were horrible to me right from the start, although one of the twins came around after a few years.