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HELP! SS16 and DH and a car??

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Submitted by Grumpy on Sat, 01/31/2009 - 12:07pm

Oh what could be better than this? I have a SS16 who won't get a job here because he has one where his BM is (in another state..and without our permission btw). He won't walk a mile or two to look for one but will mention so and so is hiring..and when I take the time to look it up.. "its too far to walk to" so I say "ride a scooter or skateboard" i get "too much effort". lol. So my canned reply is "sorry that you choose to feel that way". We FINALLY got over the hump of hearing "i need a job, i need money" to now..

Tell me I am not crazy!

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Submitted by Grumpy on Sat, 01/10/2009 - 12:45pm

I've been lurking here for awhile and I need to vent! I see so much of the same things that I am going through. I am so glad that I have found this site! I almost thought I was going crazy.

I have a SS16 that has been out of control. He lies, eats whatever the he*l he wants to, backtalks, looks at me with half lidded eyes, pushes my BS9 around, refuses to go out and be with friends just so he can stay here and irriate, swears at me (when he acknowledges I exsist) and is just awful! He refuses to go out and get a job here and then b*tches about having no money.