B*ver and the room rearrangment and other updates
Beaver news...
1. CPS still hasn't met with Beaver. WTF...DH called and left a message for the case worker. Sigh...
2. Beavers new mantra for everything is....SD ask your father....he is the PERRRFFFEEECCCT parent.
This includes the use of femine products. SD asked her mother to get and show her how a tampon works. Beaver told her to ask DH since he is the PERRRRFFEEECT parent. SD in turn asked me. Told her we would get some this weekend and either I or DD would show her how the work. I also told SD...Geez..how petty and how about Beaver just be her mother for 30 seconds.
Also included was getting SD a Halloween costume. SD had told us she didn't want one so we didnt' get one. However, now SD wants to go out with her girlfriends so she asked Beaver and Mr. Beaver SR if one of them could take her since she is at Beaver's during the evenings. Answer to that was....ASK DH..HE IS THE PERRRRRFEEEECT PARENT. OK...DH had some time during the day he wasn't in a meeting so he took SD and she got her costume. ***plllleeeettt*...take that Beaver.
3. Beaver and the GWR have taken to taunting SD with...
Gee SD maybe we should throw something at you so your FAAAATTHTHTHHHHER can call CPS and then laughing.
Yikes..really..please do so that yes we can CALL AGAIN.
4. This one is just freaking funny. SD has a very very small room at Beaver's. SD rearranged her room and Beaver told her she needs to undo it because....Beaver can't fit in there now. She can't fit between the bed and the dresser. (Beaver really is that big). Sd told her no..its her room and if she can't fit then just get out. (Now..DH and both told SD that is not really an appropriate answer but can't really fault her too much.) In private DH and laughed our butts off....cause she legit is too big to fit.
BTW..DH isn't a perfect parent...he is just a parent..unlike Beaver who shouldn't have been allowed to breed.
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Joking about throwing things
Joking about throwing things at SD so that your DH calls CPS again?!
That's abusive, sadistic bullying.
Yep...trying to get ahold of the case worker
to inform him SD is now experiencing retaliation. Its tough. But at least now SD is here all day and not with GWR and Beaver Sr and Mr. Beaver Sr.
This is part of the
This is part of the alienation. Some kids would do anything to make their mother stop behaving this way, including cutting out their own father. It's just self-preservation, at some point. Most likely SD will not tell anyone again if Beaver hits and bites her.
Absolutely
I agree at some point SD will just go along to get along. It so sad to watch someones life be destroyed in front of your eyes.
Wise not to be too optimistic
Wise not to be too optimistic, but...I don't know. When her miserable, abusive brother is also at the Beaver Dam bullying her (and has no path to launching, probably)?
I don't think it's out of the question that SD could stand firm and want custody changed.
Then Beaver will ramp up the
Then Beaver will ramp up the abuse for the entire time that it's in court, and make her life a living hell. PLUS, she will offer her every possible form of bribery she can even imagine - you can have a new computer, stay up as late as you want, friends over every weekend, lots of money ... it's not always just about abuse - it's about finding what teenager will want.
I'd be shocked if she stood up to that. AND, she knows Beaver would cut her out of her life entirely if she "betrayed" her by saying she wanted to live with DH.
This exactly
and thus DH's valid belief that after awhile SD will go by of GWR and nope out of here as well.
SMH......sad for DH and sad for both skids who will live a life of hand to mouth living and mostly likely perpetuate the cycle.
It's a crappy, no-win
It's a crappy, no-win situation when your ex is like Beaver. They destroy their kids no matter what you do. My SS20 is back in our lives, but not even DH finds him likeable.
How petty and gross. She is
How petty and gross. She is mother of the year...
Does the child even want to
Does the child even want to stay there with her? What a piss poor excuse for a mother.
I suspect she does not but she wants to please everyone
including her mother, whom she desperately wants some affection from. Thus, she will not come out and say..I want to live with you Dad.
Right - because she knows
Right - because she knows well that Beaver would completely cut her off, and not hesitate to do it. It's hard to think about losing your mom that way, even if she's a crappy one. And kids who are abused have a trauma bond - they try harder to make their parent attach to them.
She's such an a**hole. Ugh.
She's such an a**hole. Ugh.
That poor kid. Being bullied
That poor kid. Being bullied by her own mother. I don't think the room change was a mistake. Probably so she has someplace safe to go to avoid Beaver beatings. That's so sad.
good on you for helping with the tampons slams DH getting the costume handled. And we can add your CPS to eff off Friday for not following up timely while this kid is subjected to this sh*t.
((((Hugs))))