OH DH....you just keep trying to make me you lackey and other musings
Oh DH....you just keep trying to make me do your work.
DH needed to talk to SD about school and her grades, etc. He looked at me and said..
"Well you can talk to her tomorrow when she gets home from school."
Nope..not gonna happen there DH. I'm not your lackey and I'm not doing your dirty work anymore. I'm no longer a hit man for hire.
I looked at him and said..."No, you can talk to her. Not me."
DH had the wounded puppy look....but alas that did not work. I stared at him with a blank look at that point till he said..."ok"
Also interestingly...he told our therapist that he doesn't like when people tell him what to do. Mmmkay...there DH....good to know. (I had already figured that one out about him) However, then quit telling me to tell you what to do and/or avoiding making a decision. If you don't like people telling you what to do..THEN DON'T ASK THEM TO TELL YOU AND MAKE THE DECISION ON YOUR OWN. That thinking is so fundamentally flawed...I mean sure ask my opinion and we can discuss things..but to straight up tell me to tell you what to do...all the while resenting that I told you to do something....WTH. That is a 0 sum game...
The mental gymnastics on that one is astounding....
Anyone else have DH model like this one...no..just me...thought so.