I have 2 ss, ages 8 & 5. BM has met a man on the internet and is supposedly getting married in sept, without ever seeing this person. Now she is saying she is moving out of town with him and the kids..Any suggestions?? We currently have ss every other weekend as well as 3-4 days per week. She is the custodial parent, but we keep them most of the time..it is very screwed up..