Issue 1- what skids want has to be done imeadieatly, they call the shots, they run the show end of story.
Issue 2- hubby works long hours so I get home first the kids go out and do activities and things and dh will tell them to go and at the last possible min. Tells me I have to go pick them up or take them somewhere and if I don't pick them up they are stuck somewhere so I'm backed right in a corner, he literally Waits till they are already there to tell me I have to go get them

I completely get how important it is to have 1 on 1 time father and son BUT there's gotta be something wrong with this kid ss10 never wants to do anything alone ever. He's always up daddy's A**! there's no bedtime so even a moment of privacy between u's doesn't exist when he's here.

So this weekend is ss9 soon to be 10 birthday. No looking forward to it. DH has bought him a pocket rocket or mini motorcycle whatever u want to call it... 400 and he couldn't help me pay bills this month bc of this... Whatever that's another story. Recap back to last weekend- he bought him a 200 mo-ped... Few months earlier a 4 wheeler and a mini bike.... And people wonder why this kid acts like he does and throws tantrums everytime he doesn't get what he wants.

Doesn't this kid ever want to sleep?? No bed time means up all not and not even an hour of relaxation before bed for me.... No wonder I want to snap all the time.... I feel suffocated by their constant taking over everything.... Can't even watch a television show without them taking things over. I just want to cry out of frustration. I just want some sort of downtime without them on the weekends. They are just to much to be around all the time. I can't even get up out of my seat because as soon as I do they take that over to.... His kids are ruining our relationship.