BMs dog's passing & the craziness that is to follow....
Ok. Id like to first say-- Im a huge animal lover. Ive got 2 large dogs of my own as well.
BM contacted DH just a bit ago & let him know her little doggy had cancer & needs to be put down as he is in pain. This is the dog that DH & BM and the kids had during their marriage. I obviously told DH that I am sorry of the doggies passing. I know the skids will be upset as well. Its soooo hard to loose a pet. 2 years ago I was in that very position as well. Now..... Heres where it gets crazy....
BM is taking the poor pooch to my MILs house to be buried this afternoon. Itll be the 3 skids, BM & HER DH and of course MY MIL & FIL and most likely my SIL & her kids (they live 4 houses down from my MIL).
Now.... Mind you- MIL & BM have Never gotten along!!! In fact- they Hated each other the 3 plus years Ive been with DH!!! So Why on Gods green earth is she burying Her dog over there?? BMs parents & her whole family live right there in the same area!!! Why must she bury the dog at my MILs??
But AHA!!! Its so it gets My DH & his overly drama loving gamily involved!!! The crazy woman just cant "let go" of DH & his family. Its been 3 Looooooong years of this kinda crap. Shes calling & texting MY DH when she needs to be leaning on HER DH & his family and HERS for emotional support!!!
Again--- I DO have a heart. I feel bad for the skids & yes, for DH as well. That was his little doggy once upon a time. I also know that if we didnt live 4 hours apart-- DH would most likely wanna say his goodbyes as well & to help the skids thru this loss too. He was an awfully cute little doggy. BUT its times like this...... I realize......BM has NOT let go of DH & his family. I also feel for her new DH. How AWKWARD it must feel to be runnin over to his Wifes Ex MILs to bury their doogy. Especially when all HIS family lives im the same area too.
So why? Why MILs? & BM please please please LET GO!!!
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Our BM goes through dogs like
Our BM goes through dogs like she does houses. Quick and painlessly. So we don't have that kind of crazy, but she DOES call my DH when anything goes wrong in her life. They weren't even ever married. She called my SH when her bathroom caught on fire a few years ago BEFORE she called the fire department OR her own husband!! :jawdrop: She was crying and asking "what should I do? What should I do? I am sitting in my car" DH said "uh hey dumb ass how about you call the fire department and your husband"
Thank guys for not making me
Thank guys for not making me feel crazy about it.
Its not so the skids can go visit the grave easier- even tho MIL & BM live pretty close by- the skids have gone to visit MIL like once in the 3 yrs Ive been with DH!!! So its not because of that. MIL has a decent sized yard I guess but BMs parents have lived & owned their home & land for over 20 yrs so why not bury it there? Or her DHs parents OR why not their own yard? Wouldnt that make more sense??
BM keeps texting & calling DH giving him the blow by blo. She pulled the kids out of school early so they could go say goodbye before they put him to sleep. So of course the kids are hysterical now.
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Ugh!!! Itll be nonstop calls now to DH tonite. From his family to bm to the skids.
I do feel bad the poor doggy got cancer & had to be put down. Its just--- why all the damn drama. But im starting to realize they all thrive on drama!!!!! Including DH!!!