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Skids got up Christmas Morning opened gifts without us!!!
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Just like my title states. Got up Christmas Morning around 8am. The skids (10,12 & 15) evidentally got up real early Christmas Morning-- did NOT wake us-- & opened their gifts WITHOUT us!!!
My heart is really really hurt. When I asked them 'why' they didnt wake us-- I was told by skids that "Our Mom doesnt make us wait to wake her up". But yet- this is my 4th Christmas with my DH & skids and they Never did this before!!! Ugh
Soooooo pissed!!!!!! (Venting sorry for cuss words) SS Stole from ME
Omg!!! I'm so pissed/furious/angry/hurt!!!!! We had a Yard Sale this weekend. It felt good to purge & sell some stuff we no longer wanted & needed. DH helped me out Alot which was super nice!!! The skids also helped set things out & hung out during as well. We live in a great community so a lot of friends & neighbors stopped by. It was nice!!!! :). (Side note: the skids put Nothing of theirs in the sale. I knew they wouldn't so that's ok)
BMs dog's passing & the craziness that is to follow....
Ok. Id like to first say-- Im a huge animal lover. Ive got 2 large dogs of my own as well.
BM contacted DH just a bit ago & let him know her little doggy had cancer & needs to be put down as he is in pain. This is the dog that DH & BM and the kids had during their marriage. I obviously told DH that I am sorry of the doggies passing. I know the skids will be upset as well. Its soooo hard to loose a pet. 2 years ago I was in that very position as well. Now..... Heres where it gets crazy....
Would love input. How much should BM call DH?
Ok. Heres the deal. BM is calling/texting/emailing my DH faaar too much for my comfort!!! She will also ask my DH if 'shes' around-- meaning me!!! She wants private convos with my DH!!! She told him this last week. Shr will call him at work too so that Im not around. Grr.
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BMs craptastic "parenting" & her boo-hoo'ing about it! Ugh!
Omgoodness!!!! BM has gotta be the most dense chick out there!!! She wants to call my DH cause Her DH is outta town & she just cannot seem to know or want to parent her kids (skids) by her lonesome (plus she seems desperately lonely too)!!
Shes been having a hard time lately as her crappy ass so called "parenting" is coming back to bite her square in her ass!!! She has NO rules in her home for the skids & she sure as crap cannot seem to muster up the damn courage to dole out some freakin consequences either!!!
Ugh!! Vent. BMs DH is outta town. So she calls MY DH constantly!
Ive come to notice that whenever BMs new DH (married a year) is out of town doing stuff with his kids boyscout troop-- she calls & texts MY DH constantly!!! She cant seem to handle her kids when hes not there. We live a state away & she called 5 flippin times tonite plus various texts-- because SS14 was refusing to listen to her & yells at her. Well.....duh!!! The skids have no rules, consequences or structure. They get everything they want & do no chores or anything at her house.