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I think I am going to gag...

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So many of you know the sordid history with my inlaws, including my sil opening the credit card accounts in dh's name, her arrest, and the mil and fil taking sil's side. This includes my fil leaving my dh a message that he was "a piece of shit". This was back in September. Since that time my dh has talked to fil exactly 0 times. Dh tried to call him in early Nov as we mistakenly got a check in the mail for fil (they have the same name)-dh called left fil a message about having a check for him. Fil never returned his call.

So apparently ss14 is on probation...

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At least he said he was on facebook. He said on one post that he was suspended from school and then on another he stated he just got on probation. So I am guessing at this point that it is fairly certain that they did find drugs in his locker. I havent pushed dh into finding anything else out and I just saw the probation comment this morning. I did pass it on to dh.

so ss14 is still not back in school

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I believe this is his 8th day out. We still dont know what happened. We do know he was bullying another child (as the parent came to our house to complain), we know his locker was searched at school, and we know my dd15 heard a rumor that they found drugs in his locker and was sent home.

I have no idea if he is out for the semester, two weeks, forever, is in juvenile detention, if mil withdrew him and is taking him to another school. Nothing. This not knowing is causing me some anxiety.

Found yet another credit card that my sil opened in dh's name...

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Dh got a call earlier this week from American eagle asking him when he was going to pay his bill as he was almost 3 mo ths behind. He told them he didnit have an ae account. They asked isn't your address ..... ? Which of course was sil's address. They are sending out some fraud reports for us and I guess dh will be calling his friend the police officer to report yet another theft by sil. I guess she opened the account on 7/1- and had actually been paying on it for several months, but hasnt paid the last few months.

Having nightmares about ss..

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Watched the house at the end of the street yesterday. It's about a "girl" that kills her parents, stabs them in the middle of the night. I enjoy scary movies, dont ever have nightmares so usually no problem. But I had nightmares and was actually scared last night as it was ss stabbing dh and I in the dream. I woke up scared. But it wasnt the dream so much as the realization that I could see him actually doing something like that. I Thank God he is out of my house and feel like we all narrowly escaped a much worse fate than what we dealt with.

Ss14 just sent dh a text

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That told him he was done with him. Told him he doesn't have a real dad but a paranoid retired combat medic who accused him of breaking into his shed. Wow. Dh did accuse ss of that like 9 months ago. Somebody had tried to do so (most likely sil)-but for maybe 15 minutes he thought perhaps it was ss because he had caught ss skulking around the garage and found some loose tobacco, a knife, and a can all up in the corner of the garage. So when the shed had been tampered with he did briefly consider that's it was ss. But wow- strange the things he fixates on.

Follow up on ss14 threatening classmate...

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Well apparently his locker was searched today- dd15 actually saw it being searched and by the end of the day he was gone.

Dd15 said she heard from the boy he threatened sister hat he got sent home for drugs. Didn't get in trouble for threatening the kid. Which apparently the threat was that he was going to throw him against locker and choke him. Lovely.

Who knows what really happened as mil would never tell dh. I don't even plan on telling dh what I heard.

Surprise visitor

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The doorbell rings at 7pm. There stands a mom, and two of dd's classmates. The mom says, "are you ss's mom". I believe I must have had a horrified look on my face and I was like, "uh, no". She then proceeds to tell me that he has been threatening her son Whoi is autistic and is probably the size of a 3rd grader. I am familiar with the family as my dd has had the sister over. I tell her ss hasn't lived here for awhile due to our ownprobs with him and tell her to come in and let me get dh. Dh didn't even want to come upstairs but did.

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