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Omg-I can't believe what effed up shit ss14 is saying

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So one of my dd14s friends rides the same bus as ss14. She told dd14 that ss14 was saying the reason he moved out of our home is because my dh was growing pot in our garage-said there was like hundreds of pot plants and he found them. He then said my dh told him he'd give him a joint everyday if he were nice to me!!! He said he wasn't nice to me and that's why he had to leave. Omg! He told another kid on the bus- I'm not sure if dd's friends overheard or if the other kid told him. Wtf? Who does that? I mean why completely fabricate a complete lie like that.

Police report filed...

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So the state police came by yesterday and dh filed a report on sil for opening two credit cards in his name. The officer was actually familiar with my sil and said he arrested her before for stealing license plates. She is currently on bond for check deception. Seeing a pattern? He said he was going to issue a warrant. Unfortunately, now dh is scared a nd worried about some sort of retribution. His family has some effed code, if that's what you want to call it, that you don't "snitch" on family.

Well not only was ss14 disruptive at school- dh gets a phone call...

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From his bus driver. How she got his number I'll never know since mil already changed herself to the contact person and this is a different bus than he rode when he lived with us. She said he and his 11 year old cousin were disrupting the entire bus with their fighting. I clarified with dh about ss14's meds and he told me that she had the dr reduce his stimulant and take him off his second med. way to go mil!!!

Day 3 of school and ss14 has his first disciplinary action...

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I still have access to ss's info through the online website so I got on there and checked what he's been up to. Had a disciplinary action this morning for being "very disruptive, disrespectful to others students belongings, wont sit down, wont stop talking"-said the teacher took him out in the hall in which he told her "I didnt have my medicine today". I am so sick of this pitiful excuse. I am pretty stinking sure this kid has not had any medication since June.

Follow up to sil stealing...

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So at everyone's suggestion I checked mine and dh's credit reports. Mine was fine but he had a credit card opened last month with a 300.00 credit limit- 287.00 had been charged. His address on his credit report was also listed as changed on 8/7 to her address. Damn what a bitch. He called the credit card co and they are sending him a packet for the police to fill out. He has the one sitting here already from the bill me later account. He is goo g to all tomorrow and file the police report. Anything else weneed to do?

Sil stealing...again

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So my dh gets a bill in the mail from bill me later. For those that don't know it is a sort of credit account with deferred billing. I've had accounts at different times that I pay off then close. So when dh first got the bill he assumed it was my acct and that his name was attached to it. But then I got My bill a few days later. So he actually opened the dang thing and saw a 40.00 charge from Walmart.com and a 40 charge from American eagle. He was kind of like wtf? But then sat it aside and didnt think much more about it- until he was able to gain access to his email account.

Having one of those moments of irrationality...

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So today my dh is at a local amusement park with ss14 and at least my dd10, perhaps my ds13 as well-I'm not sure if he went or not. Now, let me say, first of all this is really no big deal-we are 5 minutes from the park-we always get season passes-it's not that big of a deal to go-my kids go at least once a week-sometimes 2 or 3 times. My oldest, dd14, works there. But I am feeling a bit perturbed by it all. This is the first time all year my dh has gone. He is going because ss14 (who moved out a month ago) called him and pestered him to go.

SS is going to school in our district...

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SS14 moved in with inlaws last month. Dh just heard a few days ago that ss will be attending our school district. Previously when he lived with inlaws he chose to go out of district. Then he moved in with us and of course went to our school. So now we know he is staying. Have some mixed feelings about this. He is in the same grade as my dd14 and a year older than ds13.

So my inlaws who have been stealing from us, not speaking to us just asked to "borrow" 1500.00 to...

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bail my sil out of jail. For check deception. Amazing. This same sil stood in my yard like 5 days ago and told me I needed my ass beat but was too scared to come out there and get it. I cant believe the audacity of these people. My bil is the one who called for the "donation". He is in charge of collecting (he is not contributing but is the good guy because he is collecting). The total collections so far? 200.00-100 from fil and mil, and 100 I guess from sil's man. They figured we'd come up with the remaining amount (1500.00). My dh offered 200.00.

Please help me get a life!

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Seriously. I know this is pathetic, but I need some hobbies. My dh gets o wrapped up in his hobbies he could easily spend 12 hours a day or more engrossed in them. While I think that is seriously unbalanced I thought if perhaps I could establish some independent hobbies of my own then this wouldn't really be as big of an issue for me. My kids are all getting older and love being with my friends so that leaves me twiddling my thumbs a lot. So what are everybodys hobbies.? I love to read and o a lot of that already- looking for something a bit more active.

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