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Clingy BM proclaims her love for my boyfriend!! What nerve!

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Tonight my boyfriend called his kids to say, "hi." He had his son on speakerphone so I could be included too. While he was talking to his oldest (10yrs) his ex says in the background, "I wanna talk to your dad.." My boyfriend said, "Tell your mom to email me." My boyfriend has set some bondaries with her due to her flipping out all the time, and tries hard to only communicate about the boys with her.

Update!! BM influences skids to make ultimatum... "Choose us or your girlfriend!!.

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Things were quite stressful this weekend for me. I thought that I was "ruining" my boyfriend's relationship with his sons, due to the influence of his crazy ex...

Well, his oldest (10yrs) called and appologized for saying he didn't want to talk to my boyfriend anymore until he chooses who is more important... I was surprised and thankful that SS10 called.

Thanks for all of your support of "hang in there!" It really helped to read your stories.

Need Advice!!! BM influences skids to make ultimatum... "Choose us or your girlfriend!!..."

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Ugh!! I need advice, I'm frustrated & sad. My boyfriend's two sons currently live with their BM several states away. She cheated on my boyfriend while they were married, divorced him & married the guy she cheated with. That was over 4 years ago...

I've been dating my boyfriend for close to a year now. BM has tried to get my boyfriend back since she divorced him. And, she's tried to break us up almost the entire time we've been dating so she could get him back. My boyfriend is not interested in ever taking her back and has told her this. But, it doesn't stop her...

To send, or NOT to send... Christmas gifts to bf's ex-wife's 2yr old with new husband???

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BACKGROUND:
I met my fantastic boyfriend earlier this year and we've been dating since. My boyfriend unfortunately has a psycho ex-wife. She divorced my boyfriend over 4 years ago, for a guy she was having an affair with.