I’m a 30 year old single mom of a 5 year old son. Last year I got married to the love of my life who has 3 kids from 2 moms. The 2 oldest are amazing and there is absolutely no communication with the mom due to court orders and a smooth routine over the years. His youngest with his most recent ex on the other hand is a completely different story. They have a 6 year old daughter together and were never married. They were together for about 5 years, all of which he worked to support her staying home with their child (which she still does, living off of his child support).