BM is an idiot........ a complete IDIOT!!!!!
So DH took SD back to her mom on Friday AM as his summer visit was up. They are talking during the exchange at which time she asks DH why they have to go back to court and should be able to handle things like adults.
HUH?!? This BIT$%$ filed false allegations against us in an affidavit in January, took SD to a counselor said we were abusing her, and filed a motion in March to attempt to take away DHs visitation, and ask for more child support.
We then filed a counter motion after reading the counselors notes stating that BM had been told numerous times nothing is wrong with SD, SD did not say we abused her and the BM stated she only did it to keep from driving to VA, she wrote the affidavit claiming our house was unstable, we abused sd, left her in locations unknown, DH family also abused her - etc, then filed stating she doesn't get enough child support.
NOW - She is wondering why we have to go to court? She and her lawyer have once again continued the case (this time to September) I guess because now they have the notes and has probably talked with our lawyer. Now She wonders why we have to go to court.
I can not believe that. I am sure she wants to withdraw her motions/affidavit to try and stop the case. But she can not because we filed a counter-motion. She will not be getting away with the constant brainwashing and lying on our family.
It never ceases to amaze me how ignorant this chick really is.
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Because she knows...
that she doesn't have a leg to stand on. Her lawyer probably told her she didn't have a case, so instead of just admitting she is a lying idiot, she wants to handle things out of court and not embarrass herself. Our BM did the something similar, took my DH to court saying he owed her almost 30K in back child support. Fortunately we had all the deposit receipts (this was prior to sending payments to the clearing house) and proved her a liar. The courts then deemed that DH had to send all payments to the clearing house, and now she has to wait for THEM to send her a check. LOL.
We also had to get a restraining order against BM at one point because of her horrendous behavior, while walking into the courthouse, BM stopped DH and said she wanted to handle things in the adult way, away from court. He told her, you shoulda thought of that when you had the chance!
Time is a great teacher, but unfortunately it kills all its pupils ... - Louis Hector Berlioz
And make sure
When she loses the case, you ask the court that she reimburse you for the fees you incurred fighting off these ridiculously false accusations. Hit her where it hurts the most...the pocketbook.
Very good idea!
Maybe she'll think twice before starting any more crap!
Time is a great teacher, but unfortunately it kills all its pupils ... - Louis Hector Berlioz
Yeah, I figure the same thing....
She and her lawyer figure they have absolutely no case at all. AND that the lies BM has told to everyone (lawyer, teacher, counselor, family, court) is now about to hit the fan. She will finally have to face the music on all of the lies and brainwashing. She will now have to face the music on the false allegations and protective order. She will now have to face the music on the lies about not getting money and costs. She will now have to face the music on being in contempt of the court order and lying on family.
So now she is trying to weasle her way out of all of it...... BUT she can't because unless we decide to drop our countermotion - it will all be heard.
She was trying anything under the sun to take joint custody away from DH - all because he got remarried. BUT didn't know that even though you go and lie - you can't let that stuff be found out that you are lying. That dumb chick - sat and told the counselor she was doing this to keep from having to drive to meet DH 1/2 way during exchanges as the judge ordered (and she still doesn't drive to the point in the court order). She was so dang angry that she lied on me, his mom, his sister, some of my family and all.
I am just sure she is down in NC now trying to make it look like DH is harrassing her and taking her to court to be vindictive. OH WELL! BM shouldn't be starting fires and not be willing to face the music when that time comes.
We did put in our affidavit that she should pay back our attorney's fees as the allegations were false and done out of vindictivness.