I don't know where to start, but its been a long history... I have been married for 22 years and have 2 SS and 7 SG. I feel me and my Husband have a great Realationship.,the problem I have is with BM she has always created problems from the moment I met her. I guess they had a terrible marriage and she walk out and left him with the kids, and when I met him I moved in and we where married 6 months later. My daughter was alive then.