SO my daughter well step daughter is 7. I have been in her life since she was 4. I have met the father and he wasnt very good to them. now I have decided to adopt her, she has always called me daddy and shes always been my little girl. So the father signed over his rights and we are waiting for the court date. and now all of a suddon after all the pain he put them both through he wants to see her again. Need i say he never paid child support, called her on her birthday, got her any presents for xmas or birthday. hasnt seen her for years. and now hes what? doesnt want to lose her?