I am so happy to have found this site. I need so badly to vent and talk to people who are going through the same crap as me. My husband and I are married, second marriage for us both. He has a 16 year old demon he adopted from his ex wife who pampers her and spoils her like the princess she is. They also had a son together who is 13. I have a 9 year old girl and 6 year old boy/ girl twins. We have two girls together who are 14 months and 3. All the kids live with us and the older two visit mommy dearest every Thursday and two wknds a month. The oldest is nothing short of a bitch.