I have 3 adult stepchildren and all live out of the area.My youngest SD, is in her 20's, married now and will not stay here when she visits and doesn't come to the house. If she visits us, it is for 30 minutes and the rest of the time it is all with her mother for an entire weekend. I recently redid her resume and worked on it for 3.5 hours. I sent it to her in an e-mail.She asked her dad for help with it and I offered to help him with it. She never thanked me or e-mailed me back. My father-in-law recently died and she never talked to me for the entire 4 days of the funeral.