I do not have any kids of my own but I have nieces and have friends with girls I don't remember them acting like SD 5 does towards her father. Lately she keeps trying to open mouth kiss him, does dance "routines" that are more like a stripper on a pole, shaking her ass at him, dry humping the floor, she keeps trying to see him naked and she's been coming into our room at night laying on top of him then will straddle him.

So I'm starting to think my SD has some sort of personality disorder. She will say and do things to try to get yelled at. It's like she gets some sort of sick pleasure from it. She loves crying to daddy and trying to start fights between her father and me and even her bio parents. She'll come to our home and tell us something which upsets my spouse, which in turn will call the BM and they'll start fighting and vice versa.

So we have reported BM and her boyfriend for child abuse. My 5yo SD came over Friday with a bruise on her cheek. Once we got her to speak about it we found out that BM's b/f slapped her across the face for letting her 9mo sister fall off the couch when she was babysitting.... yes you are reading that right they have a 5yo in charge for a 9mo. While they have their bedroom door closed and locked... my SD told us that the b/f slapped her across the face then grabbed her by the hair and threw her on the ground so she would know how the baby felt. All the while mom is just standing there.

Ugh I don't know what to do... My 20 SS moved in with us about 2 months ago. He's had a past history with herion. He's turned our house upside down. Stays up all hours, sleeps all day refuses to look for a job says he plans on going to college in the fall but that's months away. I bought $200 in groceries and he ate it all in 2 days. Stole money from my purse, used MY car with a set of keys he stole out of his dad's nightstand.