My skids' mom doesn't care for her own flesh and blood. She lets them rule the house and do whatever and just complains when they break stuff or fight. There is no love ever given from her, and she practically abandoned her own kids. My BF has had custody of each kid since they each were 5. She said she would take them back when she got on her feet and my BF agreed to help her out. She says she can't handle if both kids were living with her and she was about to take the oldest til he messed up by fighting with lil bro and breaking stuff in her new apt.