I previously wrote a post about my former inlaws wanting to visit my kids after not seeing or even inquiring about them since Christmas 2012. I was torn on whether or not I should allow it bc my husband was really opposed to the idea and also bc my kids don't know their paternal relatives and I didn't want to open a confusing can of worms. I got a lot of good advice on here and after debating it some more I sent a message to my ex-MIL on April 21st letting her know when my DDs next soccer game was and also inviting her to lunch after the game.