I am thrilled to finally find a place to vent and get advice and opinions. I moved to a new state and and got married. I have 2 step children, Lacey, 18 and Ron 23. I have one son Alex 22, graduated college in May, raised by me since 15 months old with no ex husband, I am proud. I have been married for 6 years. None of our children live with us now. Long story short, Lacey has been diagnosed with severe depression and has been hospitilzed several times. Ron has ADHD, defiant disorder, social disorders, alcohol abuse, etc.