I need advice here. Well probably not advice but more of a verification I responded the correct way. Little background.... My husband and I have been married for 4 yrs. He has 2 grown daughters 33 and 30 (one has two children) I have two children. My son is 24 my daughter is 26. My kids think my husband hung the moon. they have a wonderful relationship. My step daughters however hate me and have from day one. I know how hard it is to accept a new person into their fathers life as I have a step mom myself.