Hi, am new to this site. Some advice would be much appreciated. I am married, we have 3kids. 7year old son(mine from a previous relationship), 6year old son(his from a past relationship) and 3year old daughter (ours). SS6 doesnt live with us coz his bio mum insists he is still young and needs a "real mum" in his life. We have him over for visits and some of the holidays. he gets along fine with the other too. We used to get along ok even though he always looks at me with a lot of fear in his eyes.