:? So my Mother-in-law is very involved with the raising of her grandchildren which makes it way too difficult for me to build a relationship with my 17 yr old SD. My husband is very laidback and nothing really bothers him and he is used to having his mom make decisions for his children and sometime him. My SD's mom really isnt involved, but i feel like i'm outta the loop on decisions that are made........don't know my place....help??