My BD, 14 and SD, 13, who are both in the same grade, have a formal dinner dance coming up. I plan on taking my BD to get a dress, however I am having hesitation on taking my SD. Reason being, last year, they both attended a Valentines Day Dance and I made an appointment for my BD. At the request of my DH, I also included my SD and her BM. The appointment was two months from the dance and an hour prior to the dress appointment, the BM called and said to my SD that she was unable to go because she didn't have the money. Needless to say my SD was distraught.