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Submitted by Kitana on Fri, 04/27/2012 - 5:34pm

I want to let everyone know that I was really excited in finding this site.Initially.Then I realized it is extremely negative and of course much of what everyone is going through in terms of stepchildren and other people's ideas of parenting it is negative and it can be really emotional and draining. I have to say I am done with this site, the comments about don't contact BM and basically nothing will ever get better disgusts me.

The gates have flooded

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Submitted by Kitana on Tue, 04/24/2012 - 4:26pm

So after hearing everyone's thoughts I thought ( knew ) I had done the wrong thing. It's funny though because BM has emailed me back, I didn't think she was going to since a few days had passed and she is known for seriously rash decisions. Anyway when I see her name I just tense up, I wish I could control that! I can't feel angry really because what in the hell was I expecting? What she sent back is I suppose her nice way of lying through her teeth about everything. She cannot keep it to the kids and has to drag any mutual person into this mess.

The Gates of Hell

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Submitted by Kitana on Fri, 04/20/2012 - 10:09pm

So today after six years of literally feeling sick to my stomach in regards to this woman I have finally decided to try and email her and see if she is able to be decent after all of this time. I am praying because we surely can't afford a lawyer. Maybe I have just opened the gates of hell, I am unsure but I know that I cannot continue living this way. I am asking that BM realize this isn't about her, it's about two children growing up without their father because why? She says so?

Ten years

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Submitted by Kitana on Thu, 04/19/2012 - 2:56pm

When I met my boyfriend he had two kids ages 6 months and 3 years, his ex cheated on him and made his life hell. She stole all his belongings and then once I came into the picture all of the sudden she wanted him back desperately even though she would tell anyone who would listen how abusive he was. She started calling nonstop, showing up at his house with the baby and the other child trying to make him feel guilty about being away even though she did it to herself. We would have the kids for the weekend and her thong would somehow wind up in the kids bag of clothes. How disgusting.