Before my husband and I got married I knew his son lived at home - he was 27 at the time.  He is now 29 years old and is still living with us.  He got some money when we bought our house from the estate and is supposedly looking for a place to stay.  As when I moved in he does almost nothing around the house and the only financial responsibility he has is to pay our Internet bill - this came about when I expressed my frustration to hubby about the fact that he doesn't contribute.  I wasn't raised that way and it makes me a little crazy.