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Submitted by KittyKat on Sun, 08/31/2008 - 9:44am

I'm so sorry I haven't been blogging. SO MUCH has happened.
I think I mentioned I was going to Myrtle Beach (Aug. 9); my
daughter became very ill. She is 16. Sore joints, etc.
Long story short, she was just diagnosed with JRA (Juvenile
Rheumatoid Arthritis). In May she was on a medal stand getting
a second place award for pole vault in district competition.
Now, she is on medicine for LIFE. It's amazing how life changes in just a few weeks. She WILL live a normal life, on
meds, she WILL be able to pole vault again. This has just been

I think I'm ending the marriage

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Submitted by KittyKat on Thu, 07/24/2008 - 7:48am

It's just one thing after the next. I'm NUMBER 5 in his life,
after the three adult STEPBRATS and his mommy.

We are SUPPOSED to go to Myrtle Beach August 9th. One would think he would be planning a GREAT time with is wife. (My own 16 year old daughter is bringing a friend; I don't think any
of his bitches are coming); ANYHOO, I find out that his OLDEST (29) brat Emailed him that she is having a PARTY at her house on the 16th. (the day we're driving back to PA); of course, I DID NOT RECEIVE anything about it.

HORMONES and STRESS

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Submitted by KittyKat on Tue, 07/15/2008 - 8:09pm

Hi, all...

This is mainly meant for the "gals", but there might be some understanding men on the site who care to add input.

After reading recent blogs about some of our dear friends experiencing various health issues, I feel impelled to blog about how we IGNORE ourselves when our bodies are betraying us,
largely because we are too caught up trying to "fix" other problems that are probably stressing us and making our situations even worse.

Dating vs. MARRIAGE

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Submitted by KittyKat on Tue, 06/24/2008 - 9:12pm

Hi, all..

Oh, let the venting continue. I feel GREAT!!

When DH and I first starting "dating", adult SDs thought it was "cute" that daddy had a "girlfriend". He had been alone for almost a decade after his divorce, so I was his first "date" (awwww). I fell for him IMMEDIATELY because he played NO games, he was so sweet and sincere, and I thought it was COOL that he had three daughters. As I had said in previous blogs, I have NEVER had a problem with young women in that THAT'S WHAT I'VE DONE FOR A LIVING for two decades!! I work with young people!

Is this really LOVE???

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Submitted by KittyKat on Tue, 06/24/2008 - 9:30am

My new friends,

As I read blog after blog of so many of us being disrespected,
disregarded, placed second (or third or fourth) in our significant
other's life, I just have to wonder how and WHY we stay with these circumstances. Sure, love has its challenges, but when every DAY is met with a certain DREAD as to what will happen NEXT, WHY are we putting up with this stress?

Are we all hoping that "some day" it will all get better and it'll work out? DOES IT EVER get better??? Are we supposed to just "live our own lives" while helping to pay bills, etc.?

Thanks to all of my pals in VENTING!!

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Submitted by KittyKat on Mon, 06/16/2008 - 7:31pm

Hi, all...

I just joined this a few days ago, and it has CHANGED MY LIFE.
I am so glad I found this place and have had the chance to learn so much in just a FEW DAYS from all OUR VENTING and helping out.

I really SNAPPED last night (FINALLY)....I am sick of wimpy DH, overbearing, bitchy Adult SDs, and I just let it all rip (til 2:00 am, I believe...)I am SICK of being pushed around, being expected to "understand" and compromise my OWN feeling and PHYSICAL HEALTH, at this point, and I just let everyone know NO MAS!!!

More ADULT SD disrespect...it's disgusting already

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Submitted by KittyKat on Sun, 06/15/2008 - 10:15pm

THANK you, my new shoulders to lean on, for helping me realize that I AM NOT THE CRAZY ONE here.

Get this....sure, it was father's day, I get it, BUT when Adult SD called (and this goes on ALL THE TIME), it's like I NO LONGER exist. He won't even acknowledge that I'm in the SAME ROOM!! ("I'm not doing anything")....is it SO BAD for me to expect that he should say "Hey, we're sitting here watching TV?"

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