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short fuse when it comes to SS (3)

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Submitted by krk10 on Tue, 05/24/2011 - 12:02pm

Ugh so i am still a little peeved. As i have said in my previous blogs i care about my SS(3) i really do. I am going through the adjustment stage of being a stepmom just like he is adjusting to going back and forth between our house and him BM house. He is driving me crazy and i find myself getting so annoyed and angry when he does something wrong. He likes to play dumb while he is here, if we ask him to do something he acts like he doesnt know what you are talking about so that you will just do it for him.

i just dont get it

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Submitted by krk10 on Mon, 05/23/2011 - 11:05am

:? so i love my SS i really do, he is only 3 yrs old and all kids go through the stage of testing your patience and being honory. I understand that part of it, its not any easier on a child who has 2 completely different sets of rules one where he gets to do what he wants and when he wants and here he has to ask nicely, use manners, and not watch tv all day. SO i do my best to be understanding and keep my cool not loose my patience because he acts like he doesnt hear you and pretends he doesnt know how to anything by himself. His BM does everything and i do mean everything for him.

FRUSTRATED!!!!

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Submitted by krk10 on Tue, 05/03/2011 - 3:16pm

So my stepson gets to run the house when he is with his "mother". He tells her what to do and she gives him exactly what he wants, he does what he wants, he talks back, he acts like he is the adult. Sad to say that is the case i have seen first hand how disrespectful he is to her and she thinks its cute so she does whatever he wants whenever he wants her to do it. The kid just turned 3 years old, i can only imagine what he is going to act like when he is older.

what to do??

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Submitted by krk10 on Tue, 05/03/2011 - 10:42am

:? i have been around my stepson since he was 2 and he just turned 3 about 2 months ago. I am married to his father and we only get his son 2 1/2 days a week. I do love my stepson he is a good kid but my feelings recently have been very much negative. I have a 6 month old baby of my own, my very first child. I love him more than words can say. He loves his older brother and vice versa. I find myself very jealous for my son. My Husband is a wonderful father, he loves his kids very much.