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I haven't blogged in awhile because I was waiting til things were going better to blog. Well...things are going great. My SO and I, although we aren't officially together, we are amicable and still do things with the kids. BM gave SS2 to SO and SS2 has thrived ever since. SS 10mos is getting big. We don't get to see him often. I move in to a new apartment in about a week and a half and I started a job about a month ago. I'm looking for a second job and have been reading Dave Ramsey's Total Money Makeover to help me get out of the debt that my relationship with SO has caused me.

As far as me and BM go, I ignore her. She's a pathetic piece of work and I don't even try to waste my breath on her anymore. She comes by the house every once in a while and I just see an empty space wherever she is. It makes her mad, but truth is, if I don't treat her like this, I get so mad. I really made her mad enough the other day that she stormed out of the house. Just because I ignored her and wouldn't acknowledge her. She still thinks that I'm made of money and can foot the bill for gas to take skids wherever she has chosen to live any given week, so I told exSO that if she isn't going to meet me halfway or live within the distance of an hour's drive, I want gas money from her, whether she can afford it or not. I remember many times that SO and I had to give her gas money when we couldn't afford it just so we could see the skids. ExSO is getting ready to enroll SS2 in head start (SS2 turns 3 in August), so like I said, SS2 is thriving. He's even potty trained. That was a long process, but we did it! Anyways...I have to be up early for work, so goodnight all.