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So how do we dis-engage.long need strong advice

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Today is our GD's birthday and we are not welcome to call her.SD does not answer our calls because we once asked her questions,and she freaks out if anyone asks her anything..so we haven't in many years....Sd sees herself as the perfect Mother on her third mariage to a 23 yr old..she is 32..he encourages her to ignore us as he has always ignored his family so we have no chance..she is a mythologist with sincere need of psychiatric help..she lies when the truth would be easier..but she loves the drama she creates..she sees what will get her the most attention and uses it..so as hard as we ha

Found Horrid Posts by SD on IT site..about me and DH

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She can text me "I love you " or used to..( mad at me right now because I couldn't do as she wanted..long story).and then post the most venomous lies on a site,I had never heard of.but I am on it now.under an alias..is this wrong to do??????..just want to know how she is presenting herself and us to the world..shocked, a little..

Any Help in Curbing the Lies!!!!

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To my face and on text I am "mom" on SD's other posts I am the wicked step-mother...she talks about this woman"mom"..who made hers and my DH's life a living hell..put her with a baby sitter from infancy on, shut herself in a room to read while SD was left on her own..abuse was the norm for them..the AD (adopted mom) as her BM left them early she was commited to a mental hospital ..my DH can pick em..LOL.he thought she would take care of SD as she was all into school and child psycology,etc then.....but he tells me every day how thankful he is to have a HOME for the first time..AD used to l

There is a difference in adult and mature

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I have been dealing with my SD's acting out for 22 years,including running away,theft,jailtime,and putting our Grandson up for adoption without telling us....this is only a few of the trials..but she was young and bitter about her Dad's divorce and we understood and forgave times 777.now at age 32.after 3 marriages and 4 children she hasn't seemed to learn anything..she still lies,acts out by throwing everything we give her (or our Grandchildren) away,post slanderous things on a website :jawdrop: and keeps us from even talking to the kids on the phone.