I finally met the man of my dreams, but his kids have no respect for him or me, yet he wants to continue to spend time with them! Its frustrating because he is a wonderful man who doesn't deserve to be treated like crap. His kids refuse answer his phone calls or answer his texts. The only time they want to see him is when he says they are going to go have fun. Now these kids are 11, 15 and 18. They all have stated they do not want to spend the night at our house, but they are okay hanging out with him during the day. A little background, I've put in the effort.