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We did it all for nothing

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I didn't sleep at all last night and I am heartbroken and hurt. I'm mad as he//! Dh called bm last night to set up summer visitation for sd. Bm wants the month of July which is when sd would be in band camp for band. She has to be there the last 2 weeks of July to get the marching and parts of the routine down. It is mandatory to do this to be in band. If she doesn't go she doesn't get to be in band. We have to send her for visitation and the Co states bm gets to pick 4 weeks and she won't budge. When dh told her it interferes with band she said she knows and sd can try out for band there.

New allergist

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Hi everyone, sorry it's been a while but life has been hectic. Sd is seeing a new allergist and she faints after each shot. He just has a nurse stay in there with her and she is awake in about a minute. There is a name for this but I can't remember. He said it's a reaction to the needle and not what is in the shot. He thinks her allergies are dog related and she also has a list of out door allergies she has. He has her on allergy shots and Zyrtec. She had a melt down in the drs office about taking any of the allergy meds by mouth because she hates the feeling.

I deleted my post

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Thank you to everyone who was helpful and whoever pointed out sd wasn't sick is a godsend. Thank you so much! I'm going to look into that. I deleted my post because I have enough stress and superjew and troll spamming me about laying pipe and meat sandwiches was to disgusting and inappropriate. I hope you guys understand.

I'm done I give up

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I am pissed at all of them right now. Yesterday bs lied to me and had dhs parents pick him up after school so he could go see Bear and tried to spend the night there, he had an epic meltdown when I went to get him. Today sd fainted after getting an allergy shot and the allergist said that he won't do them anymore and dh thinks that I am over reacting and that Bear is just a dog and why am I freaking out when we can just give him away. I am so done with all of them right now! I'm just done. I am picking up a bottle of wine on the way home and some take out for me and a few redbox movies.

Dh and Sd are back

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Bear is at the inlaws. My fil took sd and bs to the movies and mil came and got Bear yesterday. Dh and I stayed behind and swept and mopped and dusted to make sure all allergies as gone as we could make it. Sd did great with only a little sign of allergies but I think that was because we were all super aware and waiting to see what would happen. By the end of the evening sd was fine and showing no signs. I texted her this morning and she said she was fine and wasn't having a reaction so I think we did good and have that handled. Now bs..... My baby is upset and I feel horrible.

Bm is acting like a wiener!

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Since bm left she has only talked to sd when she was sick. Sd has mentioned a few times about bm not answering her texts or her phone but I stayed away from that topic until last night. Last night dh was pissed because bm is ignoring sd and only texted her to say , No, she isn't going to visit them for Spring Break, that she made her choice and we are her family now. She also told her not to expect any presents from her since she has to pay child support now and put her kids in daycare all because sd is selfish and thinks only of herself. Man oh man I didn't think bm would be like this.

Feeling productive

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We have had a busy month! Whew! This last week dh and bs pulled all the carpets out of our house. I put it on one of those buy and sell pages on facebook for $50 and people were fighting over it. We got it sold and used the $50 to go to dinner with the kids.

allergy appointment update

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We met with the allergist today and he would like to try the shots buttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttt, yeah a BIG BUT! She has a history of passing out (fake passing out) so before he will treat her for anything including testing he needs her pediatrician to physically clear her and he wants her cleared by a pediatric cardiologist before he will see her again. Dh called a few and the shortest wait is 3 weeks. She goes to the pediatrician next week so at least we are making progress.

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