Hi, I am not really sure about how I feel, besides being scared and jealous. Scared because things haven't changed, and jealousy over my 25 year old stepdaughter. She lives on her own, goes to school and bartends. She lives 30 miles away, so we don't see her a lot. She is the center of my husband's universe (friends have told me this also). I have 3 biological older children, and they are also on their own and very successful. Stepdaughter has "borrowed" money a couple of time from us. Both times for $1,000.