I have been married to my husband for 20 years. I've cared for him through 3 life threatining surgeries with no help from SD's.  Now my husband has terminal cancer and is paralyzed from the waist down by a tumor from this cancer. Now his daughters, ages 55 & 59, are suddenly desperate to control what happens to their father. They are visiting him constantly in his rehab. They are bombarding the staff there with questions constantly, most of which are not even related to his problem. These SD's did not want him in a rehab, they wanted me to take him home to care for him.