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A recent social networking status from SS16 - apologies for the language - I "bleeped" the worst of it...

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Submitted by LizGrace65 on Fri, 09/10/2010 - 7:27pm

N!--@s tlk sh!t everyday lol dey jus f___n jealous becuz ppl start to f___g knoe u nd u start to get rep. nd dey act big guess wat n!--@s

Seriously what is wrong with this idiot?

His mother actually called the police and DYFS *herself* to see if they'd have someone talk to him because he is out of control. Of course, SS chose to go with BM (twice), and BM arranged that with SO behind SO's back even though she said she wouldn't (the second time), it took all of two months to get to this point, and now SS and BM are blaming SO for SS's problems. They say he was too tough. Or he should have been tougher. It depends which 5 minutes you're listening to.

All I know is this kid is going to have the crap knocked out of him not too far in the future, walking around with an attitude like that and *nothing* to back it up.

(rolleyes)

L

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Submitted by LizGrace65 on Fri, 09/10/2010 - 7:57pm

He does think he's gangsta, and the difficult part is that we live in an area where we certainly have real hardasses too. We even caught SS flirting with gang activity as early as the 7th grade. It's a reality in the local high school (he goes to a better county wide school, but he still lives here in the neighborhood). We nipped that episode in the bud, but clearly his fascination wasn't affected. He's hell-bent on going in that direction, and he's going to get hurt. Nothing further I can do though, and I'm dealing pretty well with that.

I'm feeling fine, thanks for asking. We've progressed on to injectable meds - my hormones will be through the roof over the next couple of days. So far I feel emotionally stable, but I'm keeping an eye on things!

Thanks Smile

L

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Submitted by Rags on Sat, 09/11/2010 - 4:21am

My SS's SpermIdiot has been a gangster wannabe for 20 years. When he knocked up my wife when she was 16 and he was 21 his nick name was Nilla. Some juvenile reference to Vanilla Ice I guess.

He has told people for years that his mother is black. His mother looks like Aunt Bee and he looks like Opie Taylor Cunningham or Howdie Dudie. He is less black than I am I can say that I am about as cracker as they come.

As an adult he will only date African American women and the two youngest of his total of four out-of-wedlock children are bi-racial.

All so he can improve his chances of getting in to the Crips or Bloods or some such crap.

Fortunately all four of his children including our son (my SS) detest his gangster aspirations and make incessant fun of him for it. To his face not less.

Hopefully your SS will not be successful in his wishes to enter a gang.

Best regards,

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Submitted by LizGrace65 on Fri, 09/10/2010 - 8:00pm

Yeah, right? LOL

I guess he's happy as a pig in you-know-what now that he's over there with BM and he's allowed to run in the street at night and work on his "rep".

The problem is he's not just talking about it, he's acting out on the street too, and there are real gangs out there in our area. He's totally headed for trouble. It's a shame.

L

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Submitted by caregiver1127 on Fri, 09/10/2010 - 9:57pm

Okay maybe at 43 I am getting too old or maybe you bleeped too much but I don't understand a word he put on his status - lol. I hope BM is watching him because he is going to get in big trouble if he does not straighten up and I am sure if he does then BM will find some way to blame you. Good Luck!

And I just tried to read it again - what language is he using?!?!?!

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Submitted by MamaBecky on Fri, 09/10/2010 - 11:40pm

I have a nephew who is 12 who acts the same way. His FB status's always amaze, fascinate, and disgust me at the same time. He lives on the bad side of town and brags and thinks it is wonderful that he is ghetto, gangsta, lives in the hood..etc. He has dreams of being a pimp/drug dealer, gang banger etc. Yeah...great goals. Ugh!

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Submitted by auroradusknd on Sat, 09/11/2010 - 4:32am

Translation:
N!--@s tlk sh!t everyday lol dey jus f___n jealous becuz ppl start to f___g knoe u nd u start to get rep. nd dey act big guess wat n!--@s

N*ggers talking sh!t everyday LOL They just f#cking jealous because people start to f#cking know you and you start to get reputation. And they act big Guess what N*ggers.

This is the product our our educational reform directly resulting from the No Child Left Behind Act.
Your problem isn't so much WHAT he's writing.
You have a bigger problem than that.
This kid can't read, spell, or write!!
Grammer?? What's that.
Get him some hooked on phonics or something..

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Submitted by Rags on Sat, 09/11/2010 - 12:09pm

Snark,

Sure, I would be happy to pimp out my dad for use as an effective discipline consultant. Wink

As surprising as it may be to some Stalkers, interestingly, my father never beat the crap out of me or my brothers. He never had to. He whacked our butts with a belt a few times but never hit us or beat us.

Mom never did either. No slaps or punches from either of our parents. She did whack us on the butt a few times but even more rarely than dad had to spank us. Dad was the primary purveyor of spankings. Mom is a 5'1" force of nature and you can't help but to obey her. Even now at 46 I say "yes ma'am" to my mom and "yes Sir" to my dad. Smile

They are awesome and I respect them not only as my parents, as adults and as examples. They are also two of my closest friends.

I for sure won the parent lottery. Due to their example, I try to make sure my son (SS) wins that lottery to.

Best regards,

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Submitted by Rags on Sat, 09/11/2010 - 4:39am

And these mental giants wonder why they can't get a job that pays worth a crap or get real people to take them seriously.

These poor kids are destined to spend there lives sucking on the welfare tit and breeding future generations of entitlement spawn.

No wonder why the Chinese are kicking our asses economically.

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Submitted by Milomom on Sun, 09/12/2010 - 2:58pm

Rags, I couldn't agree with you more. Your comment here is spot-on.

Except I refer to them as "mental midgets" - same as your sarcastic mental giants.

Sigh....

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Submitted by LizGrace65 on Sat, 09/11/2010 - 2:07pm

Thanks for the responses. SS is latino and idolizes M13 and the Latin Kings as opposed to the Crips or Bloods, but he thinks the whole gang "lifestyle" is just so cool. There *is* activity around here, he does have the "blood" to be accepted, and he could potentially get himself in very serious trouble.

To aurora - He *can* write appropriately if he chooses to, he's doing this for effect. I'd say that's even worse than not knowing any better. Also, I love the YouTube clip, and it is totally true.

As far as smacking SS into line, when SS was here he could never have gotten away with that crap, and didn't (as I said, we monitored and nipped an early episode in the bud). But when SO had to seriously crack down on SS for his grades finally simply getting too out of hand, SS ran to BM and BM took him. Twice. SO and I are done fighting - if SS wants to go in that direction so bad, he's going to be allowed to do it and to experience the consequences. It's too bad, but he totally *insisted* on learning the hard way that this is the wrong path.

SS thinks he so tough because at the end of the day, SO actually *is* that tough. SO has a long and colorful history, and actually *did* have a tough life, while SS only *thinks* he has. SO has become a very strong man with very strong values due to his life experience. SS is a wanna-be SO, who doesn't have the strength, hasn't earned the power, and doesn't understand the responsible way to handle it. All SS sees is that SO is strong, pretty intimidating, is respected wherever he goes, and has a good woman who does everything for him. SS doesn't comprehend what SO has done and does daily to *earn* all of that - SS thinks he can have all of that just by *acting* tough, not by actually *being* tough - and by tough I mean capable of making the difficult choices correctly, I don't mean being heartless.

In any case, SS is an idiot, and BM is facilitating his descent. SO and I fought to exhaustion to show SS this is the wrong way, and we failed. We're letting it take it's course at this point.

But what an idiot!

(sigh)

L

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Submitted by LizGrace65 on Sun, 09/12/2010 - 8:59am

Thanks, we will check that out. I doubt we can since at least at this point, he is still attending school. SO says if there are any more incidents (he was picked up by the cops over labor day, seems he was loitering or out too late), SO wants to send him back to (home country). I believe at that point BM would go too, and they'd go by her family. We're just playing "wait and see" at the moment.

L