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Submitted by love_my_shichi on Tue, 06/04/2013 - 10:41am

Don't judge me on what you know about my relationship, listen to the content of my message.

In retrospect, being in a relationship with a man who has 3 kids and and x-wife made me miserable. Some of us are cut out to be stepmothers and some are not. I wasn't. I should have known after the honeymoon period ended and I had to see his situation for what it was on a daily basis. If you come on here daily and vent and aremiserable....then you should probably leave him sooner as opposed to later.

I looked over my blogs and I was always miserable.

The other side of leaving the "skids" mom or dad..........YES ITS DONE

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Submitted by love_my_shichi on Tue, 04/23/2013 - 10:41pm

Well, things blew up and I left. I think that he thinks he asked me to go when in reality........I drank to get away from the skids and the situation.

Its been mantra'd on my mind that I HAD TO GO.

Well, I had to waste tons of money on hotels and cabs and fighting over cars and bank accounts and ----GET THIS--he is living alone with my daughter while I am living with my mother!!!!!!!

WTF YOU SAY- oh yeah,,,,,,,,

my mother won't allow dogs in her mini mansion, and the SKIDDY D. has a big house with two dogs of his own.

I think it finally sunk in- this will never work......

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Submitted by love_my_shichi on Mon, 03/04/2013 - 7:44am

I hate these kids. They are complete assholes to me and any other woman who does not Mary poppins their a$$es. Spoon full of sugar and such. Their father will not parent. Never will make them accountable. Trying to ignore them every weekend is not working.....and I have only lived with him a year. What the HELL am I thinking exactly? This will never work. I am already completely miserable. It's time that I get used to the idea of letting him go.

10 year old skid tells me I am breaking the rules in my home!!!! the F!!!!

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Submitted by love_my_shichi on Sun, 03/03/2013 - 2:35pm

I was standing in the kitchen heating up a lean cuisine and set my little shi chi dog on our island counter for a second while I grabbed something and youngest skid walks in the room and says in a very snotty voice...."xyz dog is not supposed to be on the counter'. I almost flew off the handle in a rage. WHO THE HELL IS A TEN YEAR OLD THINK HE IS TELLING ME WHAT THE RULES ARE I'M MY FREAKING HOUSE!!! IF I WANT TO SET MY DOG ON THE COUNTER I WILL!!!!

Skids are NOT sooooooo cute !!!!

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Submitted by love_my_shichi on Fri, 03/01/2013 - 1:40pm

Just one example of the many things one of my SO's youngest sons does that bugs the crap out of me. He very inconsiderately eats all the chocolate M&M's out of the trail mix so I have to hide it and I did just that this AM and SO proceeded to say, "he's soooo cute!!!!". ANd in my head I am like, "NOBODY ON THIS EARTH THINKS HE IS CUTE EXCEPT FOR YOU! HE IS SMELLY AND BRATTY AND ANNOYING AS FUC%" I honestly guarantee that nobody thinks this kid is cute. You have to hide any candy, soda, cookie or anything from this kid or it will be gone instantly.

just this

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Submitted by love_my_shichi on Fri, 01/18/2013 - 9:56pm

My fiancee's dad is here. Sooooo, the boys are here for the weekend as usual and they have gone to pick up psycho sister for going out to dinner with GRANDPA. I sit here alone on Friday night. The thing is...I don't want to be with them. I could be, in fact I insist that they go OUT, because I cannot stand the kids. I don't know how much longer I can live like this. Last night it was my mother, his father, and my daughter and him and me. Totally pleasant, normal, good. The boys come and act like idiot fools....screaming, just generally being morons....seriously. I DETEST THEM.

GROSS

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Submitted by love_my_shichi on Wed, 01/02/2013 - 8:13pm

So, when my fiancee gets ready to go out with his PSYCHO daughter on their weekly dinner outing you would think he was literally going on a date. He leaves work early...gets really really uptight if he thinks he is going to be late picking her up, he acts all giddy when he is getting ready and changing his clothes after work before he goes. IT'S SO ANNOYING AND CREEPY.

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