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those of you keepibg track of my o/t drama....

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Submitted by luckykitten on Mon, 04/23/2012 - 11:42pm

Once again thanks ya'll for your advice, support, and insight. Ya'll really said somethings that may have been hard to stomach, but I am not so ignorant as to disregard well intentioned advice just because I would rather not deal in truths.

I had a wonderful poster recommended a site with Dr. Irene. It specializes in abusive relationships, and more importantly co-dependency. I did a lot of reading and it seems I may have a long road of self changes a comin! By becoming a healthier version of myself, hopefully this will translate into my relationships.

o/t but desperate for advice... cheating spouses

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Submitted by luckykitten on Mon, 04/02/2012 - 5:28am

Omg. It actually happened. Yesterday I received an email from a woman saying she had a three month affair with my husband. He denied it of course so I demanded proof from her which she supplied in fb messages between them.

I don't know what to do. I took vows before God to see my marriage through better and worse... I take that very seriously. I love my husband very much. Even as my heart lies shattered I want nothing more for him to hold me. I tried packing a bag to separate for awhile... But like a mangy mutt I came back home (mind you at 5am to sleep on the couch)