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DH attitude when its NOT me!!

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I am really starting to hate the wkds that my skids come over. The weekday over nights are fine but the all wkd thing is starting to annoy me. Unlike a lot of the posts on here where the DH thinks his kids can do no wrong and they are treated like royality, we have a different situation. SS’s drive DH insane. He gets so annoyed with them not listening or following the rules but than I get his attitude!!! Then the second they leave, we are back to our loving home without them and no fights or attitudes!!!

BM asks about CS EVERY week!!

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DH has a CS account set up where the money automatically goes in there EOW and then he writes a check and put into an envelope and puts in his son's bookbag and BM gets Friday evening. Happens EO Friday like this. About 2 mos ago BM started to call DH on Friday and ask him when and how she'd be getting payment. He would tell her the same he's been doing for the past few yrs. It would be different if he paid late or forgot but he is very anal about it.

My husband has something attached to his ass....oh wait thats his son...

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Seriously...I may joke about this but it really annoys the hell out of me. My DH can not even walk out of the room without one or both, going where is daddy and go hunt him down. They can be in the middle of playing or watching a movie and if they noticing him missing, they ask me and than go hunt him down and ask him what he's doing and a million questions. The worst is when I'm cooking dinner and my kitchen isnt very big and he will come and ask to help and I'll have him set the table and hear the both come and just stand there. Like hello, I'm cooking move out of the way!!

Oh little boys and their penis...(sigh)

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Okay I'm out numbered at my house, the only female!! Even the dog is male! DH, SS8 & SS5. So this is meant to be light compared to what is normally discussed. So all 3 of the boys wake up with boners! I thought I'd be equipted to deal with this, as DH doesnt bother me. But seriously a 5 yr old can get a hard on and than he wants to show us. Like look my wee wee grew. OMG! I've never looked at my ceiling more than I do now. I caught SS8 humping a piece of furniture and I turned around and ran, just literally, the other way!!

I'm worried something is wrong with SS8...

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I've been in his life for the past 3 yrs and he is a super intelligent kid. He is in 3rd grade and reading on an 8th grade level and doing 4-5th grade math. He excels in school and we are very encouraging of him and pushing him to learn more. When we first started to date, I thought he was like a normal kid. He would get excited to play a video game or do something fun. But I started to notice that the ONLY thing he wants to do is play video games, it got so bad, we had to elminate games at our house for a time period.

Jealously and I'm just plain annoyed

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So this wkd, we went to visit my SIL who lives a few hours from us. My DH loves her kids and we dont get to see them much. So we decided to go for the wkd with my two SS's. It was HORRIBLE!! SS8 & SS4 both threw fits of jealously when DH played with neice who is 3 and nephew who is 18 mos. They were riducolous. They've never acted like this before when we've gone for a visit. Than on the way home we stopped for dinner. And at dinner SS4 doesnt remember his parents being together, he thinks I was there when he was born, even though we tell him I wasnt.

BM always finds a reason to call my DH

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BM will find an excuse everyday to call and talk to DH. Last night was she had to call and tell him what time SS's practice was...jackass, its been the same time all season!! And than she will go off on other things. DH is super short and snippy with her and in EVERY convo, she will be like "why do you have an attitude with me?" and he will tell her b/c you are telling me things I already know and I dont need daily reminders of the same crap! Than she turns the fight into he left her. It's seriously a broken record over and over and over and over again!

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