Ok, my DH is hosting a poker tournament in our home this weekend. He invites about 20 men to come, bet and play. He told me that his son would probably want to play. I told him that it would not be appropriate because that is usually for adults. His son is always contributing to conversations with adults. He thinks he can participate and sees other adults as his peers. He sometimes says unappropriate things, even to my small children. I suggested that he not play. My DH was very offened. He got very upset and said that he doesnt like things I do for my children either.