This is my first post on this site but I am a long time lurker lol. My story goes back 8 years with SD 20 and SD 13. My DH and I married about 6 years ago and have a pretty great relationship and I have always got on pretty well with both skids. SD 13 I have known since she was about 6 and we have built a pretty cool friendship where she also respects me as an authority figure in her life. SD 20 and i not so much.