Husband and I are happily back together. However we have a situation I need advice with. Another women is pregnant with his child. I posted a blog prior and people just wanted to know all the details of why this happen. Honestly it's a long story and me telling it is not going to help me at this point. So what I need is advice on how to be a good SM without crossing boundaries. The baby is not here yet and I'm trying to prepare myself to somewhat handle the situation ahead of time. I do not have my own kids but Ive helped raise kids since I was 11. I am now 24.