Dont get me wrong , I luv my DH very much.....but today I feel he provoked a new war w/ ex. Recently her husband & I , have written all e-mail corrospondence about the kids & visitation plans, he writes them now because in the past, she cant control her temper enough to communicate, her husband is no expert, but does a better job, and it keeps her out of trouble. I write back to him because I can keep my cool (unless under personal attack) and it keeps everything buisness like.

Has this ever happened to anyone?;My DH ex is trying to get whatever $$ she can out of us. We got custody of SS in July,and she was mad because that stopped CS payments.../.we were overpaying her anyways, and some of the surplus was put towards past due support,we had past due support owed because we were seeking modification , now we only have a small amount that is past due, and we have $69.00 taken out of DH paychecks to pay it off....this really pissed her off,She wanted alot more, it is a court order and we thought everything was all set.

Lately I'm at my wits end with things that have been going on. I am dissapointed in myself for feeling this way, but I think I need to take a big step back in my role as a stepmom. I have had a few things come up w/ my skids, one w/ my SD. that I posted about already, she only wants to be here when her dad is home, and not "left" with me...??? That issue has resolved itself some, new issue is w/ SS.