I have been with my partner of 20 years and 4 or 5 years ago he began talking to a woman whom he thought maybe his long lost daughter what he didn't tell me until a few days later was that he was talking to her for 3 months prior to telling me. When I did try talking to her she cut me out so as you can imagine it didn't work,but recently I could tell it was bothering him so I got back in touch and got them to meet.