So my boyfriend has his boys tonight. Mine are with their grandparents. He is a good dad. But his kids are brats!! They don't have to follow the same rules when they are with their dad and my boys aren't home as they do otherwise. They starve for his attention and I understand that. I can only imagine my boyfriend having a difficult role. But I don't think he is doing his kids any favors by letting them "sometimes" do things to "catch up" when I feel it would be better if he would be more consistent so they wouldn't be so confused.