So, ss lives with us. His mother sucks. Pays no child support, but constantly bitches to anyone that will listen via facebook that the father of her other child is a deadbeat for doing the exact same thing to her. Rarely bothers to see ss. A good example would be last week. We were out of power for 7 days because of this freak storm. SS tried to call her every day, because she did have power. Thought he could go there. She called back 6 days later. Whatever. He does not care that much about seeing her, but misses his little brother. That is the only thing he complains about.

I KNOW ss has issues. I realize he was bounced around from bf to bf and school to school with bm. But he has been here for almost 2 years in a stable, normal environment and it is about gd time that he starts to DO something. I do love the kid, and feel bad for him, but the flip side of that is he is the laziest most gluttonous person (adult ofr child) that I have ever come across in my life and I am not going to put up with it any longer.