Walked him on shaking the shit out of the swing twin9mos was in. DH and I were leaving the big kids and the twins at MIL cause DH had to work at the rodeo tonight. We do this all the time and usually its fine. The babies have been a little fussy, but they're teething. I had walked back in to get something and saw SS17 shaking the swing, hard, out of frustration. Oh heeeeellllll naw. SS17 isn't even DHs kid, bu he's got a bond with him and he helps a lot around the farm. But he lies, steals and now this.

DH and I are going out tonight for one of his friends bday. I'm not crazy about this guy, but I agreed to go out cause DH never wants to go out to the bars anymore. I'm not a heavy drinker at all, but I like a mixed drink now and again, to get dressed up and dance. We get almost here and I realize my wallets not in my car, aaaarrrggghh. And being nearly 2 hours away, I can't turn around and go back to get it. DH doesn't understand why I'm so upset. I took up some of his hobbies (hunting and fishing) so we could enjoy them together, but I can't get him to come out with me.

Valentines Day really isn't that big of a deal for me. DH asked me while we were running around doing errands when it was

"Whens Valentines day, Wednesday, right?"
"Uh, no, today"
"Oh, I thought it was Wednesday"
"No, its today"
"Oh...Happy Valentines, baby!
"Yea okay. Your presents in here"[in the console of the truck] I hand it to him still in the bag (its camoflauge lingerie from the local outdoor store, we hunt, I thought it was cute) which to my knowledge he still hasn't opened.

Well, DH and I went out the other night and argued about sending SD12 back. He was against it, so the plan was for her to stay. Until we found out that while we were gone, she went nuts. She started drama, making SS17 and his friend who was helping babysit the twins angry at each other. Then they made up and she got mad and pulled a knife that she previously stole out of the safe that she learned the code to. We cant have that kind of violence in our home.