I have major trust issues with my husband. His BM has always given me problems. He has always denied anything was going on and she would tell me that things were going on. Ive tried to move past this with doubt and sadness in my heart. A few times i left him because of this they would argue on the phone she would come drop off kids unexpectedly she would come by and cuss me out blaming it on me that he doesnt see his kids which is not true. Ive been dealing with this for 4 years. We have a 2 yr old and a 5 month old. I cant seem to move forward with him without knowing the truth.