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Submitted by mommy0104 on Fri, 11/20/2015 - 3:38pm

Scrolling through Facebook today, I came across my ex's (BS14's bio-dad) sister's (I don't know why I haven't unfriended her yet..guess that's next on my list) latest status. It's a picture of a letter that my ex wrote her (from prison, of course, where he'll be for the next 3-5 years). She highlighted some of the parts she thought would get him the most sympathy for his "addiction"..and what do I see?? He writes..in all caps... "I LOVE METH!"..Nice...and people wonder why I'm "that BM" who doesn't want my kid (BS14) around that nonsense.

Failure to launch brought to you by the letters B and M

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Submitted by mommy0104 on Fri, 11/20/2015 - 10:10am

SD21 and SD18 are butts..not nearly as bad as some of the horror stories I've read here, but, bad enough to drive me insane. However, they do have a great deal of potential that is going to go to waste because BM wants them to live her life. We'll start with SD21. She is currently in college, majoring in accounting. She's changed her major 2-3 times in the last 3 years, but this time she seems really happy with her current major. She's even got the opportunity to do a paid internship as part of one of her classes in accounting.

Time for more changes

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Submitted by mommy0104 on Tue, 11/10/2015 - 3:00pm

It's not like I want to walk into my therapist's office and say "Hey, I'm an immature asshole, help fix me"..but I think that's where things are headed. When I think back on all the stupid, annoying, petty little things the skids do that piss me off, I realize..I'm a huge part of the problem. Sure, the skids are immature, whiny, spoiled, self centered, "the world revolves around BM" people..and BM is a bitchy, controlling whorebag, and DH is a tool that never puts his foot down..and I hate it all...BUT..and this is a really big BUT...I LET IT BOTHER ME!

AAAHHH..back to the silence...well, at least until Christmas!!

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Submitted by mommy0104 on Mon, 11/09/2015 - 10:55am

As per one of my last blogs, SD18 was in town with BM to get haircuts/colors and so BM could go get drunk with friends..so SD18 spent most of the weekend with us. It was fairly uneventful so that's good. SD18 just left a short while ago to go back home (to FL, we live in IL). I feel bad for BS10 (the son I share with DH) because he is always sad to see his sister leave, and is even more sad that she had to leave while he was at school. (however, he did get to tell her bye before school this morning, so it's not as bad) But, now it's time for me to enjoy the silence.

OT-Proud of BS10!

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Submitted by mommy0104 on Fri, 11/06/2015 - 3:59pm

He got a job!..LOL..no, not a full time, kid in a sweatshop kind of job. It's just some part time, after school odd jobs for our disabled elderly neighbor. He walks his dog, helps him cook, mows the grass, etc. The man is married, but while he's on disability, his wife works all day so my BS10 goes over and helps him out..I think even though it's not much, this will really be good for BS10. And yes, I'm being petty, but when BS10 got this little job, I couldn't help but LOL at the fact that my 10 year old son got a job before DH's 18 year old daughter!!