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Submitted by Morethandepress... on Sat, 12/11/2021 - 6:33pm

I am married 5 years. My husband has a 10 year old daughter and a 17 year old former step daughter. I have a 16 year old daughter. My husband does not work and sleeps all the time except when he has his 10 year old daughter. Then he is father of the year. He expects me to help pay for his daughter while she visits here. And he spoils her with my money and she demands I buy her things. He yells at me and talks down to me in front of his daughter and tells her how he is going to take her on all these vacations without me.

Hanging out at BM during drop offs

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Submitted by Morethandepress... on Mon, 11/22/2021 - 5:21pm

My DH has a daughter, 10. On Sundays he drops her off at her mom's between 8 and 9pm. He usually hangs out with his daughter there for anywhere from 30 to 90 minutes after. It makes me uncomfortable especially since BM sends him FB memories of them as a family and the odd picture of them as a couple and asked him to have dinner with her alone. When I brought it up to DH he said, "what do you just want me to drop her off on the side of the road?" Am I being unreasonable. I just think drop offs should be 10 minutes at most to maintain good boundaries.

Mess

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Submitted by Morethandepress... on Thu, 11/11/2021 - 5:44pm

My stepdaughter is 10. I have been married for 5 years. The ex and I used to get along fine for the most part. She always wanted him back but she has a boyfriend. She decided she no longer wants the boyfriend and has been texting my husband tons of pictures of the kids and them as a family and some of just him and her. This weekend she asked to get together with him alone to talk. I feel so hurt and betrayed. His response is to just ignore the messages and not make waves. Her daughter now hates me because she wants mommy and daddy back together. I feel so betrayed.

Verbally abusive step daughter

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Submitted by Morethandepress... on Tue, 09/14/2021 - 4:51pm

I have a step daughter who is ten years old. She is extremely mean to myself and my daughter. I get sick when she comes. She begs to come to my house. If I say I can't do it because she is so wicked to us, the BM starts threatening my DH with court and he backs down. Is the relationship doomed? It makes me sick to be around and.